Thailand Update.

Hey everybody!!

It’s been quite a while since I write for you guys but that could just mean 2 things, I’m either dead or I’ve been having a blast. A crazy blast pretty much. This country is fucking nuts. It reminds a lot of Mexico back in the 90’s, you can do anything, get anything you want as long as you have money in your pocket. Viagra, valium, cialis, morphine, any fucking drug you want you can get it. I’m not into anything but if I were I would be a really happy addict here. So my trip started in Bangkok, arrived to the airport and everything seem pretty normal, just a regular airport, of course with a lot, A LOT more Asian people. Took the train and made it to the hostel, as I was walking on the street to the hostel there’s a lot of bars with a lot of Thai girls, this was around 11am by the way, and all of them try to grab you and convince you to come into their bar. I went to the hostel, dropped my bag, took a quick shower and head to get some food and a beer. So there it goes, the lost westerner walking into one of those bars full of Thai girls, one comes and sits next to me, trying to make chat on me and of course she wanted me to buy her a drink, I was like fuck that. Ended up getting horrible food and paying a lot for it, now that I know I could’ve paid a 1/5^th of that for a lot better meal and with no uncomfortable company.

Well, I spent a couple days in Bangkok, had my share of fun with the backpacking girls, then met this cool ass Canadian guy from Quebec and went to an island called Koh Phan Ngan in the gulf of Thailand in the southeast. I spent a couple days there just meeting more people, more backpacking girls, having my share of fun, driving a scooter around the island, seeing beautiful beaches and also bitches haha. There was a full moon party there that it was like spring break in Cancun but 10x better and crazier. Then from there I was supposed to travel with this 3 Dutch girls and one German girl, well the German girl liked me but I liked her Dutch friend and lets just say I’m in another island now with the Dutch girls and no German girl. Kinda fucked up but oh well, you all now I’m not a really nice guy sometimes. So, I’m in Koh Tao now, another island around an hour away from the other one with the Dutch girls and from here I’ll be traveling with the Dutch girl. We’ll see how that goes. 

All I’ve learned from this trip till right now is you have to look for what makes you happy, you, not anybody else and I can say I’m pretty fucking happy right now. Still got some stuff I need to take care of back in the States but honestly I don’t even know if I want to ever comeback, I’m pretty happy here in my bungalow with the ocean outside of my door sleeping next to a pretty Dutch girl.

Oh, she loves sex as much as I do as well.

Here we go....

According to the flying map in the computer I have around 3 hours left till I land in Bangkok, its been a relax and nice trip, first flight to Chicago I just work on filling my IPod with new music, chit chatted with this girl that just graduated from art school and omg, she can draw, she was doing the drawing of a man face and it was amazingly stunning to the eye. Second flight from Chicago to Abu Dhabi was an eye opener, that’s when it hit me that I’m going to a complete totally different place. A lot of Muslims in the plane. Guy sitting next to me was a Muslim from Abu Dhabi and he was pretty cool, had some issues understanding his broken English but I guess that’s how some Americans feel with me.

Oh, here’s the best part of this last couple weeks, I met somebody, yeah, right before I left Fort Worth, bummer right? But that just gives me a reason to come back! She’s 24, loves doing yoga, is working on her masters and she is so beautiful, has an amazing body and a great personality. She’s super shy sometimes but then she opens up and both personalities are amazing. 2 days after knowing her I already told her I love you and she said it back. Do you think you can love somebody in such a short amount of time? I think you can, it’s a different kind of love that the one a couple that have been married for years have but it’s still something coming from the heart. She makes me laugh and smile all day and makes me want to be a better man; I always look for somebody that makes me want to be a better person.

I was originally doing this trip to comeback as a better person just for myself but if I’m a better person there for I should enjoy somebody like that next to me and I think that’s her. Oh people, also, tip for you all, FLY ALWAYS ON ETIHAD AIRWAYS, two words for you… open motherfucking bar. Dewar’s, Red Wine, Heineken, Whiskey, Vodka, 14 hour flight? Let’s put some booze in it and make it a good one haha.

Recap

A recap as explain by google is pretty much a summary.

So, what's going on with my life right now?

I'm pretty much just waiting to get my ass out of the country. Just working, working out and going out. A lot of people would be like, damn that's the life but unfortunately for me it's not. I would love to be in school, learning about anything. Or traveling, and that's why I'm so anxious about this trip.

I read the other day this article about choose your shit sandwich, it helped me a lot. The thing is I don't even know what kind of shit I would like to put in a sandwich. I don't know what I want to do with my life. Most people don't but at least they kinda do, they kinda have a direction or somebody that tells them what to do. I don't fucking know what I want in life. Honestly I'll settle myself right now with a good group of friends, a good girlfriend, well that's debatable, I should just stay single and keep having fun around. Or get into a relationship? Told you guys that I don't fucking know what to do.

So, 15 days, 15 days and I will be flying to Chicago and then out of the country. I can't believe I'm doing this.

In the meanwhile, I guess I'll just live my simple life some people envy and have fun with the fort worth girls, that by the way, are really cute. I mean, all I knew of American women was of military towns, where there was a bunch of guys just like me. Here, rarely, rarely, are guys like me So that works in my advantage ;)

Have a nice fucking day, don't kill yourself, try to smile, trust me every time somebody smiles or I see a picture of somebody smiling on facebook, instagram or any kind of fucking social media that makes us anti-social, it makes me smile.

Would you date yourself?

I just read an article with that title, would I date myself? I don't know, I don't really know. I mean I'm a nice guy, I treat women with all the respect in the world. I pay for dinner or movie tickets or whatever. But I do have dark issues. I'm not happy with my life. So, I don't know, some girls tell me I'm a good catch but I don't like those girls, maybe because they're too nice to me. And here we go back to the whole thing about me liking girls that treat me like crap.

My ex apparently is seeing somebody else. That's good because that will finally help me to get over her, her late texts saying I miss you were just killing me softly. I do want to keep in touch with her just because of the crazy things we did and the bond we created.

So, this week, I'll be buying my ticket to Thailand. I can't believe I'm doing this. One way ticket. This is going to be a crazy experience. I've been thinking about ways I can make money when I'm over there and I'm thinking about starting a website. Talking about travel experiences, about everything. Just documenting my day to day living in different countries.

I've been trying to be happy by myself and it's so hard. I hate being alone with my own thoughts and feelings, they scare the fuck out of me. Oh, I also twisted my fucking ankle yesterday at a music festival, so there goes my happiness, working out makes me happy and I'm here with a twisted ankle, oh well, at least it's not broken like the last time.

Fear.

I was at the gym the other day and I put this random playlist with the tags: workout and motivation together. And this speech came through, called fear. It got me moving and I've been listening to it on repeat since that day. Fear is the most subtle and destructive of all human diseases. That's the opening line pretty much.

To resume it to you guys is pretty much, fear hold us back. A little example about it, I talked with a bartender yesterday and mentioned to him that I'm going to Thailand next month, that I'm moving over there. He said do it, he said that he wished that when he was my age he would've done it. But that he has normally being a pussy on doing things like that. Now he has a kid that holds him back, even though he told me it's the best thing that has ever happened to him. And it's not that he's a pussy, it's because he's scared of what would happen if he decides to move on and follow his dreams.

A lot of us are scared to follow our dreams, our heart, because of fear, lack of self-esteem, if we are scared of moving to bigger and better we will never find out what will happen.
Some people and friends think that I'm moving to Thailand because I'm running away from my problems, from this broken heart, from her. I'm not. That's all I have to say. I'll actually be better financially and hopefully I will find happiness and peace of mind. I have to learn to be happy with myself, but still at the end of the day we are humans, we're social creatures, we need companionship to survive.

Well, I should be leaving around the 15th.

Thailand...

Moving to Thailand.

I've been considering moving to Thailand, India, Asia pretty much. Well, not really considering, more like I am going to do it.

Should I do it? Should I don't? Fuck it right, let's enjoy life, there's nothing else to it. I don't have anything holding me down here. Packing bags and getting the fuck out of here.

It's 2:13PM and I'm blogging to you guys from a bar. This place has wi-fi and beers so it's amazing. What else do you need in life? Oh, and there's a cute waitress sitting in front of me making conversation to me. I can't tell you guys her name, like I usually don't, but anyways, she's really cute, she thinks she's in love with this guy with twins. Seriously? Fucking seriously? Why would you get trouble? Poop and puke, that's all I can tell you. It repulses me to have kids. I'm just not made for it. Congrats to everybody that can do it but I like to take care of myself.

Oh my god, I like this guy because he has a motorcycle, really? How low can you fucking get in life to appreciate a person because of what he or she owns instead of how that person is? Here we go back to the conditional and unconditional love. Learn to appreciate a person by their soul not by what they have.

Well, I'm still alive.

Anxiety, fucking anxiety, that is what kills me everyday. I mean I'm getting stuff done, working out, working towards my goals. I just wish I could do it faster. Already got all the transcripts in order. Got a job, about to move into a new place. I just have this crazy anxiety in me.

I still miss her and care about her but I'm more calm now. I mean, I'm 24, why the hell do I want to be stuck in a long distance relationship? It's just a waste of time. I'm a good looking guy, I should be having fun instead of being stuck on a long distance relationship. Also, with all the TCU girls around here.

I don't have a lot to say, I'm just having a lot of anxiety today. I need a hug.